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True Love versus just Sex…



Dear Friend...

A definition of Love…

1Co 13:4-8 Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.

When we meditate in that definition of true love with our heart, we can easily see how little true love is displayed between people in the world in this modern times.

When we contemplate the relationship between men and women, in the media, TV, movies, magazines, & then in the everyday life, what we see nowadays is people, both men & women jumping into physical relations, just seeking to satisfy their sexual desires, & emotions, without hardly ever considering the needs of the heart of the person they are getting involved with, selfishly seeking mainly to satisfy their own needs & desires, only to find out afterwards that those needs don't get satisfied when one tries to selfishly receive instead of sacrificially giving from the heart, we need to bear in mind that it is in giving that we receive.

Many people, driven by their need to excel in this world, mainly to earn a lot of easy money, prostitute themselves on social networks, thus devaluing their lives, their souls and their bodies, and although there are many who make easy money, inside they know that they feel empty and that it will be very difficult for them to have a healthy and functional family in this life. So many have to burn their consciences and live filling themselves with drugs, living an empty and false life in order to live with themselves.

Many couldn’t care less for the broken hearted people they leave behind after they have used them, & many times abused them. Not knowing that happiness & true satisfaction only comes to us, as we do our best to make others happy & make sure we satisfy their needs within our own capacity. When people act in this selfish manner, they reflect a poor relationship with our Heavenly Father, as God is Love, and Love always seeks to give.

The life we are living in this physical world, where we are now, is rather short. We will soon move to another dimension, &… Knowing, that soon, we will leave this life to move to another world... Don't you think that it is vital then, that we live this life in function of that one which is to come in the afterlife? Wouldn’t you like to live the best life you could possibly live here, but at the same time knowing that what you are doing now will help you to have the best possible life there too?

Physical pleasure is not the ultimate purpose of sex. Of all the gifts God has given us, one of the most beautiful and meaningful one is the gift of sexuality. But sex is never just sex. It will always cause you to involve your heart, soul, & body with whoever you get sexually involved with. The apostle Paul wrote... 1Co 6:16  Or don’t you know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body? For, “The two”, he says, “will become one flesh.” 

When we surrender our body to another person, & there is not a commitment of true love & faithfulness to each other, we lose a precious part of ourselves that we can never regain.

This is why sex becomes a selfish act on the part of people who engage in it, only thinking of the very temporary moment of physical pleasure, without realizing that afterwards it will hurt their souls. Many times, people once finished, end up hating one other, instead of loving and respecting one another more. People ignore all the consequences involved, just thinking about the temporal satisfaction of pleasing their flesh for a very short moment. This is one of the reasons why, people hurt each other when they have sex without true love & commitment.

Seeing that many married couples are ending in divorce nowadays, many young people have come to believe that if they give it a try, living together with a person who has the potential to become their spouse, they will find out for sure whether that is the person they should marry or not, if they find out they can't stand each other, then they separate & try with someone else.

Those of us who know God, have realized that He definitely knows infinitely more than we will ever get to know, so we have realized that it pays to do things His way & not ours, no matter how much we think we know.

God created sex to be a blessing & benefit between a man & a woman within marriage, which provides a context of safety, security, & lifetime commitment. This occurs only within marriage, creating a safe place to raise the children resulting from that commitment of love.

If you ask me to, I will give you all the Bible references that say the above. It is not my opinion but what God says in His Word. But for the sake of keeping this rather short, I will not do it now. If you would like to read some... Mar 10:6-9, 1Tes 4:3-5, Heb 13:4, 1 Cor 7:2

Getting sexually involved with someone before you get married will remove the beauty and splendor that married sexual relations could have with your future spouse.

See, loving sex with your spouse will be deeply satisfying & create the unifying of two lives, if you both reserve your bodies for the day when you commit your lives to each other in marriage. But, giving your body freely outside of marriage cheapens who you are, as you treat your body with disrespect & disdain while at the same time, you belittle the soul of the person you have been with, or are with at the present.

The world, through their media has attacked this principle of true love in sex within marriage incessantly; trying to destroy it, and making it appear as outdated, ridiculous, anachronistic and even stupid. Sadly, people in the world ignore that when God tells us to do things His Way, it is because as our Loving Father & Creator, He knows better than anyone else what is good for us, & when we take for granted what He has commanded us to do, we end up having to suffer the terrible consequences of letting our impulses guide our actions, instead of our Spirits, & doing so, acting wisely. The world is engaged in destroying the "family", & all Godly principles that guide us into a good & productive life, in order to weaken us & manipulate people as they will.

Our Heavenly Father desires for us to have a wonderful life, & to live in daily fellowship with Him. When we do, He pours His Blessings upon us in marvelous ways of which the world knows nothing about. When we wait on God, He helps us to find real, true & satisfying Love.

Thank God, that our Heavenly Father, knowing we live in this fallen & sin filled world, provides restoration & forgiveness to all those who find themselves lost & suffering, who may be living a selfish life, wondering if there is another way to find purpose, joy, forgiveness, & desire to find true love & purpose in life. All we have to do is yield ourselves to Him, when we do, He restores our life & helps us find His plan for our lives.

If you don't know the true God yet, ask Jesus, God's Son, to come into your heart & allow Him to be the Lord of your life, He will give you Eternal Life & save you from the evil that fills this world now. He will help you to resist & overcome the world now, plus filling you with the truth & eternal life.

Just say a sincere prayer: Jesus I believe you died on the Cross to pay for all my sins. Come into my heart. I confess you as Lord of my life & say it with my mouth; in Jesus Name I pray. Amen... You can read about this in the Bible, in the books of Romans 10:9-10, &

1 Corinthians 6:17-20, 1 John 5:5

God will help you restore your life & give it eternal purpose if you come to Him & let Him order your life. Why wait? He has been waiting for you all along... If you don't come to Him, you will have to continue wondering what the purpose for life really is; being hurt & hurting others, until you die without having known true love, gee, that would be a real waste of your life, when you could start having true fulfilling joy today.

Please let me know if you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to write me…


Blessings… Alejandro


 

If this reading has been a blessing for you, please don’t hesitate to share it with the world. We need to be a blessing to others today, tomorrow may be too late. John 9:4 I must work the works of Him who sent Me, while it is day. Night comes when no man can work.

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